How to achieve more in life!

What I learned from attending National Achievers Congress 2019 on 16 May 2019, Singapore

What I learned from #GaryVee:

Be genuine and authentic.

Share your content to the world daily.

We all have important message to share with the world to benefit other people.

Give selflessly.

Why some businesses are not successful?
Because they are selfish.

Focus on adding value on people’s life

If you want to do something, start now.

Goals and plans are nothing without action.

You don’t need to care what everyone thinks, it matters what you think.

Love yourself – don’t judge yourself, don’t beat yourself up when things go wrong but do listen to some constructive feedback.

Be your best self!

If some people don’t believe in you, but you believe in yourself, go look for people who believe in you and work with these people

To grow your business, you need a team (Gary Vee has a team for content posting and video production)

Be authentic with integrity and good intention to help people and no agenda.

People like people who have no agenda.

It’s ok to be direct, if you mean well, and you are saying it for their sake as some people really need a wake up call.

Treat your children like children, not product, their grades do not reflect your personal success, don’t pressure them

What I learned from #GrantCardone:

Opportunities come from people, get out there and talk to strangers

Strangers have everything you want.

A penny saved is still penny, not a penny earned.

You need a team to grow your business.

Most one man show businesses don’t grow (64% of businesses in US is at the breakeven or lower, 67% of these businesses have no employee)

Outsourcing will help you save time and tab on to experty of others.

Engage/hire people who can do the thing better than you.

Myth: Do what you love!
Don’t just do only what you love.
Do you what you don’t like to live the life you want to live!

Teach your kids to talk to strangers and concept of making money, how to get the things they want, not just the concept of saving money and keep telling them to be careful!

Don’t take no for an answer, he called his wife 26 times in 6 months, before she was willing to date him.

You need a good partner.
(He said his wife is accountable for 99.99% of his success.)

Entrepreneurs are people who invest and risk their time and money to have more time and money to live the life they want.

Ecomonics is the management of your household.

You can’t be successful by being happy and broke.

Face your numbers and settle your financial issues.

Money is not king, cashflow is.

Don’t love your money and just keep it, make your money make babies for you!

Money makes more money when it moves.

Most people invest money in their home more than they do in their businesses.

Invest time, effort and money in growing your money!

All leads are good leads, there are no bad leads.
If they don’t close with you, they will probably close with someone else.

You sell at their emotions.
You close (deals) at their logics.

Think BIG and take massive action

Myth:
“Don’t set high expectation or you will be disappointed.”
No, you will be disappointed if you
don’t set high expectation and you waste your time of 80 years living a life of a mediocre.

What I learned from Peng Joon:

When you want to do something, you must go “all in” to be successful and be able to make a difference to your life and others.

He googled ” how to make money online”and started from there by writing his first e-book and one thing leads to another.

When we want an answer for something, look it up in Google!

What I learned from #SandyJadeja:

You can create your own economy (trading).

News and media aren’t always telling us the truth.

Traders make money from short terms investment, from up and down turn.

Value investors makes money on long term investment in the companies they see the potentials in.

Be preapared for upcoming economic recession.

To learn more about trading and investment.

Teach your kids :
Communication skills
Negotiation skills
People skills
Money management skills

Learning Notes written by Natalie Guo

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Power of Gratitude

If you don’t take people’s kindness for granted, you will continue to have more kind and helpful people around in your life and these people will continue to be kind and helpful toward people around them too and that means you are contributing in making this world a better place to live in and even more if you are a kind and grateful person yourself too.

Once kind people feel like they are taken for granted, being used, or thier help is expected rather than appreciated, chances are they may become more reserved in being kind and helpful next time to the next person who needs their help because they didn’t have positive experience in helping other people in the past.

A small act of appreciation for others’ kindness can go along way. Keeping them going by being considerate even before asking for help and when they help you, don’t take them for granted.

#gratefulness
#apprecation
#kindness

Author: #NatalietGuo

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Self-awareness for self-development

How well do you know you?Do you keep your own attitude, characters and behaviour in check regularly?Are you open to constructive feedback from people around you?Or do you always rationalise away the feedback given to you with your self-defense mechanism?Will you be open to change, adjust or improve who you are and what you do for better results in your life?In my job as a HR and People Development manager, I have met many people who said something like “This is who I am. I just want to be myself.” or “I am just being an honest/direct person.” When something goes wrong, these people tend to think it is so because someone or something else causes it and they have little control over situations around them.If we want our lives to be better, we need to think better, communicate with other people better, behave better and we will even need become a better person with better mindset to attract/create the life we want to live in.Why do you need to care about personal development?What you give out to the world is what you get.
Your life can only get better when you become better.My interview and coaching question often includes “What’s your personal development goals?” Sadly, many people don’t even know what personal development really means and their goals are usually to make more money, to go on holidays and to be financially free so they don’t have to work again, retire soon and live a comfortable life.If you know what you want in life and choose to do what you love, or love what you do, you will feel like you want to work forever and money is just an exchange for the values you bring to the company/your clients.Work/business should make our lives’ more meaningful. purposeful and not miserable. In order to do our job/ business better , we need to become better too, to make better decisions, and take better action.Then, what do we need to become a better person?It starts with self-awareness. Be observant about who you are and what you do and how others perceive you and how they react/response to the way you communicate with them and they way you make them feel.Start setting some personal development goals, find a role model, learn from positive attributes of people you admire, educate yourself on personal development as well as professional development.When you are willing to change for the better, your life will change for the better too. Everyone of us deserve to live the life we dream of, by being a person who is worthy of success.Author: Natalie Guo, WisePolyglot
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Power of Compliments

Sometimes we have some positive feelings about someone’s actions or gestures towards us but we may think it’s too small to mention or the person may have already heard it before or know it. You think it’s not important to state the obvious or feeling too shy to elaborate about it and perhaps just a simple “Thank you.” is good enough.

You may not know that by saying positive remarks and especially with more specific details in your compliments about what you are happy with or what the person did well is called “#PositiveReinforcement” and when people know exactly what they did well or being admired for, they tend to do more of it.

They could continue to do more nice things not only to the person who give them positive remarks or specific compliments but also anybody around them because it gives them the “feel good factor” to continue to do more of the good things for others and that’s how we can simply contribute in making this world a more pleasant place to live in.

It’s new year 2019!
New year is a good start for building new positive habits. e.g. #ComplainLess and #ComplimentMore with more specific details of what you are thankful for or appreciative of!

Author: Natalie Guo, WisePolyglot
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If you need a life/career/mindset coach, check out this link: https://www.wisepolyglot.com/mindset-coaching-program
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